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Friday, June 10, 2016

Menu for Jamaishasthi - from my kitchen

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Today is Jamaishasthi in West bengal. It is a gourmet treat for the son-in-law every year from his in-laws or 'Shoshur bari'- as they say in Bengal. Held in the Bengali month of 'Jaistha', Jamaishasthi is a social custom. The word Jamai (son-in-law)  suggests a relationship much closer to heart. The 'jamai' or the son-in-law is treated today with his favourite delicacies by his in-laws specially to ensure that he treats their daughter with due respect for the rest of the year. 

The menu includes special Bengali dishes such as 'various fish delicacies', 'prawn malaikari' & special jamaishasthi 'sondesh' or 'Rasogolla'. Lavish gifts are given to the son-in-law & he too in return gifts his mother-in-law with something special. For the day he relishes the attention he receives from his in-laws. The fast pace of life and the changing social norms has mellowed down the once very happening social custom among the Bengalis. 



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